How to design a bathroom that Works for Real Life (and Still Looks Gorgeous)

As an interior designer working across Surrey and South London, one of the most common briefs I get is: “We need a family bathroom that’s functional but still feels stylish.” And honestly, I get it. Between the early morning chaos, bathtime routines, and the ever-growing collection of shampoo bottles and bath toys, a family bathroom has to work hard—but that doesn’t mean it can’t also look calm, considered, and beautiful.

At Emma Merry Styling, my aim is always to create interiors that are a true reflection of your lifestyle, especially in hardworking spaces like bathrooms. Whether you’re renovating a period property in Reigate or extending a semi in Cobham, here’s how I help families design a bathroom that feels joyful, practical, and—yes—genuinely stylish.

1. Prioritise Safety—Without Compromising on Aesthetics

In any family space, safety comes first—but that doesn’t mean your bathroom has to look like a soft-play centre. I like to recommend anti-slip porcelain tiles that still feel smooth underfoot, with a soft matte finish in tones like dove grey or warm chalk.

Thermostatic valves are a small but mighty addition—they keep your water temperature consistent and prevent scalding little fingers. Subtle safety design like rounded corners on vanity units or integrated grab rails that double as towel holders can make a huge difference without shouting about it.

2. Storage That Works (and Looks Good, Too)

Let’s be honest—family bathrooms gather stuff. My rule of thumb? Build in more storage than you think you’ll need. I love incorporating custom vanity units with soft-close drawers that glide open, deep enough for everything from bubble bath to hairdryers. If you want to keep the room feeling open, wall-hung vanities are a great option—they free up floor space and create a more modern look.

For a bit of decorative flair, mix in open shelving or cubbies with woven baskets, which are brilliant for hiding the clutter while still looking curated. And don't forget towel hooks—at varying heights—so even the littlest ones can hang their things.

3. Durable, Design-Led Materials

When it comes to family interiors, materials have to stand up to daily wear and tear—but they can still be beautiful. I often specify high-performance quartz or composite worktops that resist staining and scratching. For tiling, large-format porcelain with a subtle stone or terrazzo effect works wonderfully to disguise marks while keeping the look high-end.

Moisture-resistant paint in calming, neutral shades like warm greys, clay whites or sage greens creates a fresh, spa-like feel—and is easy to wipe down after the inevitable splashes. It’s these sorts of choices that make the bathroom feel serene without being precious.

4. Double Up Where You Can

If your floorplan allows, consider adding double sinks. It’s a game changer for busy mornings—no more elbow-bumping or toothpaste turf wars. I like to run a single oversized mirror above both basins, with integrated lighting for an elegant, streamlined feel.

And if space allows, separate shower and bath zones are ideal for family living. A freestanding tub can become the centrepiece for bathtime, while a walk-in shower with a bench offers practical luxury for everyone else.

5. Inject Personality with Playful Touches

Just because it’s functional doesn’t mean it can’t be fun. I always encourage clients to add a splash of character to their family bathroom—whether that’s with patterned tiles, a bold wallpaper above panelling, or even a coloured basin for a little design moment.

Bright towels, quirky wall art or a cheerful bath mat are easy ways to bring in energy without committing to a full redesign later on. A family bathroom should feel like a happy space—not just a pit stop in the daily routine.

6. Future-Proof the Design

I’m always thinking ahead when designing a bathroom—especially for families. Adjustable fittings, walk-in showers with low thresholds, and clever built-ins that work for both kids and grown-ups are great investments. If your children are small now, consider things like step-stools that tuck away neatly, or basins with open space below for easier reach.

By designing with flexibility in mind, you’ll create a space that grows with your family—without needing another renovation in five years’ time.

7. Keep Things Tidy with Smart Organisation

No matter how beautiful the design is, if the bathroom’s cluttered, it won’t feel like a calm space. That’s why I incorporate thoughtful details like recessed niches in the shower, built-in laundry bins, and mirrored cabinets with interior sockets for toothbrushes and razors.

Hooks and rails placed at sensible intervals, sleek towel warmers, and even wall-mounted dispensers (no more bottles everywhere!) help make the space run smoothly and look polished. A calm space = a calm start (or end) to the day.

Bringing It All Together

Designing a family bathroom is about striking the right balance—between style and substance, playfulness and practicality. As a Surrey-based interior designer, I love helping clients create homes that support the realities of family life while still feeling grown-up, elegant, and deeply personal.

Whether you’re planning a full renovation, a home extension, or simply updating a tired bathroom, I’m here to help you create a space that really works—and one that you’ll still love in years to come.

If you’re based in Surrey, South London, or the surrounding areas and looking for a family-focused interior designer who gets how real homes work, I’d love to chat. Let’s make your family bathroom as beautiful and functional as the rest of your home.